Kukhala wokonda makasitomala ndicho cholinga chathu chachikulu. Sitikufuna kukhala odalirika komanso owona mtima ogulitsa, komanso ogwirizana ndi makasitomala athu. Timalimbikira kupereka mayankho ophatikizika kwa makasitomala athu ndikuyembekeza kumanga ubale wautali, wokhazikika, wowona mtima komanso wopindulitsa nawo. Tikuyembekezera mwachidwi ulendo wanu. Takhala tikudzipereka kuti tipatse ogula zinthu zabwino, zopulumutsa nthawi komanso zosunga ndalama zogulira nthawi imodzi, kuti makasitomala athu asakhale ndi nkhawa pogula. Takhala tikutsatira mfundo za "kutseguka ndi chilungamo, kugawana mwayi, kufunafuna kuchita bwino komanso kupanga phindu" ndikuumirira pa filosofi yamalonda ya "umphumphu ndi kuchita bwino, malonda, njira yabwino ndi valavu yabwino" kuti muwonjezere phindu lofanana ndi makasitomala athu.